Difference between laughter and happiness
You are laughing but it does not mean you are happy .According to me "Laughter is momentory while happiness is forever .So if you laugh most of the time in day , it does not mean you are happy , but if you donot laugh at all you might be the happiest person of the world . "The above quote might be appearing like wiered but thats what i think .
Everyone knows how to get laughter , Read jokes , go out with friends do some fun .Ofcourse its nessecary to live life but But very few peoples know how to get happiness .I have researched a lil bit on happiness and find out how peoples achieved happiness .
First of all you should understand why you need happiness ? According to me you need happiness to live most of the life and enjoy each and every moment of life no matter how much worse your conditions are .
Secondly you need to know wat is happiness , Happiness is just an imotion , A good feeling ,A feeling that keeps you satisfied most of the time .A feeling that saves you from sorrow ,A feeling that fuel your life .A feeling which gives us a hope to live in this world of non perfect peoples .
Now everyone wants to be happy ,So to achieve happiness you need to do one thing , simply feel satisfied what you are contented (given) by God .Actually human mind constantly generate desires .And if our desires get fulfilled it makes us happy and if that desire not fulfilled it makes us sad .So if our one desire get fulfilled a new desire born and we start working for that desire . So life is like a game ,get your desire fulfilled (whatever it can be , a car , a big house , a beautiful wife/husband or anything) and that makes us happy .The more we have worked for our desire the longer happiness stay .And if we work a lot to fulfil our desire but if it ends in nothing it makes us sad .,The hard we work for our desire (which is not fulfilled) it will make us more sad .So human life is all about filling desires .If one desire fulfilled /rejected another desire born and similary our life gets happy/sad moments accordingly .
So a normal person's life is filled with sorrow/happiness (depending on how much of his/her desires fulfilled and how strong desire was) .But there are some special persons who just stay happy no matter if their desire gets fulfilled or not . These are the peoples who have strong faith .(faith on anyone , but i think, faith means faith on god because you cant have faith on human being because no human can be perfect).So peoples with strong faith in God enjoy True happiness . A Happiness that never ends .The stronger your faith is on god , the more happiness you will enjoy in your life . These people's mind generate desires like any other peoples .But they have more stable minds .They do work to fulfil desire with faith in god . They leave result on God .They just do their work and donot worry about result in their life .So if their desire gets fulfilled it makes them happy more than anyone else as they enjoy it as wish of God and donot worry about loosing wat they got .But if their desire donot get fulfilled ,it does not make them sad .They accept it as wish of God .They accept every bad thing happen to their life as wish of God . And such bad things does not make them sad .According to them our life is Prewritten and we cant do anything about it .We just need to have faith in God and do our deeds .We are born to do something good in our life .We are born to change other people's life .We need to understand true meaning of life and start working .
These are my tiny thoughts , Your comments are welcome

11 Comments:
At 8:41 PM ,
Aarti said...
hai ankur...
thanks for ur comment>
aarti
At 9:06 AM ,
Name: puja said...
actually if you ask me what is happiness..i feel its a state of bliss. a situation for which u need to make an earnest effort else it will never come ur way.
stay happy always!
pooja
At 3:35 AM ,
Aditi said...
yeah ankur, i do agree with you, happiness is totally different from laughter,
laughter never means happiness, to be happy, one has feel it from inside, whereas laughter is just an expression to show that you have felt happy (although you may not be)
At 9:43 PM ,
Samvad Vahini said...
Hey..
Dont be sorry. Cause I am not feeling bad!! I knew their level of thinking. I knew that this will come to my way!! Am happy that I understood them very well & my guess was correct. Rather be happy for me that I am going out from this world!!! Cheers!
At 1:57 AM ,
aura said...
hi,
thx for ur comments.
i think success in any field has an important requirement of " will power". nice blog
At 1:45 AM ,
JYOTI ARORA said...
Thankyou, urs is also gr8..especially this post.
At 5:38 PM ,
eva said...
nice blog continue the good work
At 1:55 AM ,
aura said...
hi ankur thanks for ur comments !!! i think the methods to succeed in any area has mainly one thing in common "will power ".nice blog
At 9:45 AM ,
raregenome said...
hi, i would have appreciated if you would have commented on any of my article anyways the alien language is BENGALI...
hope to read your comments on my blog.
cheers, pooja(Raregenome)
At 1:20 AM ,
artijain said...
hi ankur , i don think you quite understood wat i wrote ... never mind ... thanks for visiting though
At 4:37 AM ,
Barath.M said...
thanks for visiting my blog
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