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Way to Success

There are basically three types of person in this earth :

  1. Those who work and get success in life and achieve wat they want
  2. Those who are careless and enjoy it lot
  3. Those who work very hard but donot get success at all

Ofcourse we are not going to discuss catagory two peoples । Because if you fall in this catagory you are lucky one so keep enjoying life ॥ but not everyone can taste carefree life।Catagory one peoples already know way to success So its no need to discuss them at all. So basically we are going to discuss catagory three peoples.. Peoples who work very hard but still donot get success.And most of the peoples fall in this catagory .

Basically God has given us most of the things in life but donot give us all the things that we need .God is very intelligent and know if he has given us all the things we need in life our life will be boaring and meaningless .So success is just to get those things that god did not give us but we want those things badly .For different peoples success may have different meanings .For student success meaning might be getting #1 rank in school/college/univ. For businessman success might be expanding Business .For poor peoples success mightbe earning lot of money .For someone finding true love might be success for others Name and fame may be success .

For every Success there is always sacrifice .So if you want success be willing to sacrifice watever your success demand .There are always two ways to get success , one is easy way normally involves cheating other is difficult but right way .Easy success by cheating is easy to achieve but normally does not stay longer .So i will say go for right way always and be willing to sacrifice watever your success demands if you want to enjoy pleasure of success .

To get Success you must have following things :

Dream: You should have dream in your eyes to get success in life .Just imagine wat you are going to get after you will become successful and always keep yourself motivated .

Actions: You must be bold enough to take appropriate actions to get success in life .Be willing to do whatever your success demands .Remember Big successes always want big sacrifice .

Obstacles in way of Success:

UnStable mind: Remember everything is in mind .if you have a volatile mind you can never be successful .So always have Stable mind .Donot change or rollback your decisions on small problems ..Instead be willing to face all the challenges and give your 100% to the success.

Fear: Fear is the biggest obstacle in anyone's success. Fear of failing always keep us demotivated .So donot fear from problems and be willing to face them .

Worries: Worries is one of the major factor of someone's failure ..Most peoples become unsuccessful because they worry of failing .So instead of using there time in working for success they normally worry about not being successsful ...So more you will worry more you will be away from success .So you just do your duty with full faith on god and leave result on God "Karam kar faal kii Chinta mat Kar: Lord Krishna (Geeta)" ..So always use this philosophy of Geeta and work hard .. Because worry is the only thing that burns alive man from inside ..So just stay away from worries .

Lack of Motivation: Most peoples donot work because they lack of motivation.Remember everyone wants 100% success but are you giving your 100% honest efforts to get your success .So always keep yourself motivated to work .And donot let small failures/small problems to hold you back.

Negative Thinking: Remember success is not made for pestimistic peoples .If you think negative or negative attitude about life you will always see problems instead of solutions .So if you think negative you need to work on it ..Because negative thinking waste our energy while posotive thinking creates energy for us to work hard ..So always think posotive

Lack of Confidence: if you are not confident enough it will be hard for you to get success .Because confident peoples take quick actions and fight with any problems easily ..So you need to be confident to taste the real success

Lack of Faith in God: If you donot have faith on god or lack it these fears/tensions will always hold you back .So always do your duty honestly and let God decide if wat you want is in your life or not ...because sometimes wat we want badly is ultimately going to give us a pain .So let the god judge wat is right or wrong for you .

So if you want to enjoy true success .All you need to do is , Have a Dream , Dare to take actions .Control your imotions (fear/worries) and work with full faith in God And always have posotive attitude.Remember everything is in mind .

Case Study:

One day i was working like everyone .( i was noting myself my own behaviour)When some part of work was done successfully it motivated me and i gave better performance .After few hrs when i was trying 2 do same thing and it was not done it gave me negative thoughts and my performance was badly affected ...So i find out if i do work with posotive attitude i do better and if i work with negative attitude my performance fallen .But in the whole work i was anexious about my work and lil bit worried that if it will be done or not ....ok i stopped working did not work at all and thought about it for few days and decided i will work without any imotions ...

ok next day as i committed myself i will not let my imotions to affect my work .. I gone to work ..And just worked ..worked with my full body /mind and soul .i did not let any negative thought to demotivate me just thought i have to work its my job (and did not think how much performance i am going to give)....and guess wat my performance was multiplied by 5 .. Yep i finished 5 day work in a single day ..So thats the benefit to have stable mind learn to have stable mind to enjoy quick success .

Another case study :

Recently there was payment dispute with someone in our company .i was negative enough after approaching client number of times i said leave yaar we r not going to get payment .. lets get back to work with some disappointment ... but my friend who was very posotive in nature said there should be some reason of not getting paid .. its not nessecary that client is dishonest ... ok i said go for it you talk to client and see if he pays .....you know wat ... he talked to client 7 hours with very posotive attitude ..he satisfied the client and client paid all of the money galdly ... I have noted whenever i failed he stared work ... and only his posotive attitude helped him to do things which were near to impossible according to me ...So if you have great posotive attitude and thinking remember it will be difficult for everyone to hold you back from anything that you want ..

I spent 1 and half hour to write this article but this article includes my whole life experience .I will be glad if my words change even a single life ..Wish you a Great success .And feel free to add your advice and experiences by commenting on this post .

Thanks for Reading

Ankur

21 Comments:

  • At 12:27 AM , Blogger Pooja Taskar said...

    Hi Ankur,

    This was a really nice blog to read. I guess i agree with you on almost everything u have written. Trust me it's a very good first blog.. something which has come from real life experience i guess.

    Have some other feedback for you as well.. the case studies were something u had in your mind and it wasn't reflecting the same message as your previous general statements did.

    All in all a nice blog.

    Keep Blogging !!!

    Pooja

     
  • At 12:34 AM , Blogger Pooja Taskar said...

    Hi Ankur,

    This ia a very nice blog to begin with. I seem to agree with almost everything you have written. It's a nice blog and i am sure it's based on some real life experiences and if not.. then you have done a great job of writing on a topic like this.

    Some more feeback... the case studies were something u had in mind.. and had a less impact than the general things you had written before the case study.

    All in all.. a nice blog .. Keep Blogging !!!

    Pooja

     
  • At 6:43 AM , Blogger fashionista-o-estilista said...

    wow, u can really write a lot...

     
  • At 8:35 AM , Blogger Katherine said...

    I really agree that your mindset and your attitude/confidence has so much to do with whether or not you succeed.

     
  • At 11:42 AM , Blogger POOJA NAIR said...

    Dear Ankur,
    I was going through your blog and i realised that your idea of faith in God actually translates into keeping alive hope and generally trusting that everything will be alright.

    I apreciate that. That kind of faith is good.

    But we must have the strength and fearlessness to accept what scientists reveal. There is no such thing as a God.

    All the happenings in the world can be explained with believeble reasons instead of simply saying that it is the work of a 'super power'.

    The concept of God was created centuries ago to explain things we could not explain. what casues earthquakes? why do people die? what casues disease? why do some people halucinate? what causes fires? etc

    Today we know the reasons for all these and more. We no longer need to rely on something as inconvincing as the presence of a superpower that does all this magic.

    We can not blame God or our lack of faith in Him for our failures. It is also unfair to credit God for our successes.

    Anyway, these our my views. i hope you see the light too. i enjoyed your entry about laughter and happiness.
    Also, the rest of your pointers to success are quite good

     
  • At 7:46 AM , Blogger rahul said...

    great work dude, you kind of gave the essence of how to be successful.

     
  • At 7:48 AM , Blogger rahul said...

    great work, you kinda gave the essence of 'how to be successful' in life

     
  • At 11:06 AM , Blogger Abrahim said...

    Hi Ankur

    Good ideas. Many of us just parrot these, but as you have shown in your cases, they have a magical effect when practised.

    Look forward to more of your thoughts

    Abrahim

     
  • At 11:55 AM , Blogger ~==[[[ Abhi ]]]==~ said...

    Hey buddy u've got a great blog! Nice presentation and good way of describing about the topic! I will give a excellent for the content!

    Thanks for visiting my blog!

     
  • At 5:23 AM , Blogger Abdulla syed said...

    Hi Ankur,
    That was one long entry.
    You sure have positive frame of mind, and your confidence reflects in that long entry.

    I have two requests.
    1. Yep, pooja is right,the case studies were something u had in your mind and it wasn't reflecting the same message as your previous general statements did. "So cross check the blog, it can turn out better"

    2. I want to please read more about the customer, who finally got convinced after 7 hours persuasions.

    Keep Blogging !!!

     
  • At 8:45 PM , Blogger Life Rocks!!! said...

    Hey thanks for visiting my blog!! Really nice to read yours...An insight to life itself is it??

     
  • At 7:44 AM , Blogger fara said...

    ...well gripped article with thoughful structure acoompanied by mystic vision...worth reading

     
  • At 9:52 AM , Blogger Hammy said...

    Hey Ankur,

    This post was an excellent read. I could relate to the points you put forth in the case studies.

    Carry on with your good work!

     
  • At 2:47 AM , Blogger Dhruv Sanghavi said...

    Theories, mostly, work within boundaries of assumption. Some of them work within very constrained assumptions. Honestly, I think this is one such theory.

    You seem to be keen on life -maybe you do not want to constrict yourself with these.

    Best!

     
  • At 12:22 PM , Blogger rahul chhabra said...

    Well I appreciate ur effort but I do not completely agree with you.I think that if you do what you like most the
    question of positive or negative attitude won't arise ever!!!
    For example if u like playing cricket or ne other sport then you won't get bored of it.You don't need ne motivation to play cricket then..it would happen by itself then...but for things you don't like to do you will try to stay as positive as possible so that you could do the same.
    So key lies in the fact to find out wat u like most & every one is this
    world is unique & born to do some particular thing..which has to be found by us.

     
  • At 11:29 PM , Blogger Rahul said...

    Nice Say Ankur.

     
  • At 7:07 AM , Blogger the PEACEMAKER said...

    hey thanks alot dude...
    really appreciate it...

     
  • At 12:35 PM , Blogger ruchi said...

    hiEE!! ankur
    the best thing bout ur blog ...in personal i felt...is "way to succes"
    the case studies... o great!thats the intersting part..
    truly!!... a positive attitude towards life and wrk can change everything...
    one can not only achieve success but also... win self satisfaction...
    superb write up.....


    well i dunno how u found my blog nice coz therz nothing there as such...i can jus do poetry dats it... trying my hands at writing.. lets see!!

    urs blog rockks!! fren
    anyways...

    live life kiing size!!
    God bless!!

    ................rUcHi

     
  • At 1:51 AM , Blogger Neha Chugh said...

    Surely learned some lessons........
    thk u........:)

     
  • At 3:05 PM , Blogger nikita said...

    ill say TRUE VERY TRUE.. n yeah..this blog did give me some confidence! so THANKS! :-)

     
  • At 11:35 AM , Blogger Atish Negi said...

    Hi Ankur,

    It was nice that u encouraged my blog.. I checked it today afterlike months.. I hardly had any hope of it being active.. Finding ur comment im gonna take it up..
    Cheers!!!

     

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