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Hate ?Why
I was sitting with my friend today and he started discussing about hate .I said ya i hate few peoples in my life (infact very few 1 or two) and i hate them because they hurt my feelings . They hit on my weakest part .I just cant forgive them but pity is i cant do anything about them . I am aware that hate is two way sword , it hurts more to the person who hate .But question is do i have really that big heart that i can forgive someone who really hurt me at my weakest part . Then i asked what are your views about hate . He said he has thinking like me ,but recently he met a person who told him a story . There was a person who was praying god for years and years . That person was very calm and nice nature . He never hated anyone in his life . He was leading very normal and simple life . Lot of peoples had said bad words about him , but he never cared about it and keep praying god . One day a lady came to him and said bad words about his family or said something that really offended him (that is she has hit her weakest part). That nice person lost control and he was about to say that i will pray god to punish you . But suddenly God came to that person and stopped him . God said he should not ask bad for anyone even for that lady who has offended him . He asked god why , she is saying something that really hurt him , and wat she said is completely wrong and defame him . God said there are lot of good as well as bad things exists on this earth .And its me (God) who has created both good as well as bad things .So you have no right to say anything about those bad things . Those bad things are just your sins .You must have done something wrong in your life thats why these bad things bother you . But its upto you weather you cry for punishments you deserve for your sings or accept those punishments gladly as wish of god . Because God always does justice .So Stop hating someone or anyone in your life .

This story was quite short but it has real meaning .I am writing it may be i am not that great that i can sop hating someone whom i just dont like at all .But if you have a Big heart you should stop hating .The happiness you will get by stop hating someone will be forever .

12 Comments:

  • At 1:22 AM , Blogger zEaLoUsMe™ said...

    true very true... we shud stop hating ppl. after reading this short story, i too remember 1.. that even people at time of Jesus Christ used to say bad n abuse words to him(Jesus i mean.) but what he used to do was not replying back with a burnin arrow but calmly and prayed to God that give them peace n properity in life... he neva hated ne1..

    It is truly somethin which being so small yet gives a meaning of living a life...

     
  • At 11:28 PM , Blogger Adarsh A. Varghese said...

    Just follow 'Do unto others what you want them to do unto you'!

     
  • At 10:53 PM , Blogger ♥busy_writer♥ said...

    hmm.. a touchin write-up..

     
  • At 10:00 PM , Blogger Prema Krishnamurthy said...

    premya, me and my friend always discussed about this, but still not have not had the conclusion.. once we conclude probably will blog it..

    Its like we love ourself even after doing many mistakes.. Then how can we hate others for their small mistakes...

     
  • At 12:56 PM , Blogger Pooja Tewari said...

    hey Ankur....

    very truly said..
    If we can stop hating anybody...we will be more happy n forever...

     
  • At 8:42 AM , Blogger imperfect said...

    we hate people whome we want to love but cant for what they did to us.. so doesnt it mean that in a way we want to LOVE people we actually hate??!!.. isnt it better just to let go n not really want to love someone who doesnt deserve it?!
    nice blog btw!

     
  • At 4:31 AM , Blogger Vaibhav said...

    Nice thought Ankur,
    Even i hate a very few people, but only those who behave badly or hurt me in some or the other way.
    Cheers!

     
  • At 8:18 AM , Blogger oomi said...

    its really true my dear frend

     
  • At 2:29 AM , Blogger manpreet said...

    tochin my heart.. nice story.

     
  • At 10:35 PM , Blogger Ramya Julian said...

    Nice story and it's very true, but I do wonder how many of us would have the endurance and patience to stand up to that sort of treatment with repeated good humour and good will.

     
  • At 11:13 PM , Blogger Buzz said...

    Hate is reverse of love.Both are extreme in nature. And as ,it is OK to love, it should be OK to hate. Also, as love is time bound. hatered is also time bound. Like I am hating my pals ( mentioned in my blog- letsmoveforward.blogspot.com). But I know, the emotion will subside and I will be normal.
    So hatered is OK.

     
  • At 1:50 PM , Blogger just me... :) said...

    I feel hatered is a natural feeling like love... and a person who is not capable of hatered cant love... because both hatered n love spring fron same PASSION besides we r all humans so lets just stop pretending that we are some demi-god ... we sud hav the freedom to b ourselves...
    Nobody is all bad...and neither r they all good...

    P.S: Just stumbled on ur blog..!!

     

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