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2008-03-17T10:23:00.000-07:00

Crash of Stock market
A stock market is a market a way to invest in companies who need capital to expand business . Stock market drives economy and companies who raise capital use that to expand business .In economies like India where growth is about 8-9% a good company was giving growth of approx. 20-30% and much more if you invested in mid cap ..

But the recent fall is contrariety to the definition of stock market. Stock market lost over 30-35% with in few days . This fall is contrary to the objective of stock market . A person invest in stock market to grow his/her money but such falls shatter the objective of investment .

Why it happened ?
Stock market is made to grow your money but not to earn money as trader . Recent surge in stock market has attracted lot of peoples . Such surge is market made it market of Gamble and Greed . Gamble and Greed both are bad things and bad things always ends bad . So recent fall of stock market is a lesson for peoples that stock market is not made to trade or earn daily living . Stock market is made for peoples who invest and want to be a part of growth of county ..

Why stock market should be fallen ?
Now it seems little foolish but i do strongly believe stock market should be fallen when it was moving up . I have invested huge part of my life time earnings in stock market and recent fall was shocking and shattered my budget too . But then i started thinking with cool mind what was going to happen if stock market keep moving up . If stock market did not fall companies were keep getting huge capital for expansion .That if lets assume what was going to happen if sensex gone to 50000 . Of course everyone was going to earn but have you ever looked at negative side of surging market . If that have happened every company have raised money to expand business . That is companies had more money for growth . But during growth we forget the side effects of growth .If everyone was rich everyone had car resulting huge pollution , more factories more pollution ,During growth we forget we have to protect our environmentfirst . if everyone use energy like rich peoples does no one can save this earth . climate changes like green house affect , global warming was going to destroy earth . By slowing growth it just gave us chance to live . Now our leaders , corporates should learn that money is nothing , its just paper , the most valuable thing on this earth is humans. So they should grow but they should not destroy water resources , they should not harm Eco system , they should keep global warming in mind , these all are so dangerous if not kept in mind may destroy whole human being .Also surge in market was going to make rich peoples more rich resulting surge in inflation and property prices , As when economy grows peoples have more money (because Fii's were pouring dollars in India and RBI have to print similar amount of rupees to fii's , resulting excess liquidity in country , resulting inflatory pressure) . In this peoples few peoples who were corporates /share holders /tech peoples started living luxurious life and life of middle class /poor peoples were worsen because property prices moved so sharply that middle families were not able to buy a small house . Such social difference makes few peoples life good but worse life of lot of peoples resulting crime and hate in society .So growth with no limits and ethics is worse than no growth at all .So you were just drinking sweet poison . So i request world leaders and corporates that don't run behind money /greed (so called growth) , but give this growth a direction to make this earth a better place to live .

So i do believe in Geeta's word " Jo hua aacha hua " (watever happens , happens for good) .

Wat should i do , my money is stuck in stock market ..?
" Har Gum ke baad Kushi hai , Har kushi ke baad bhi kushi hai" , Have that philosophy in life ,whatever god did for you is best for you ,
But i will suggest the following strategy (being practical) .
When index was at 21000 , there were stocks which were quoting at high valuations even some were quoting at P/E of 100 or more . (P/E is price to earning ration , that if a company earns rs. 20 per share and price of share is rs. 500 that means its at P(500)/e(20)=25 , A typical stock with good growth should not have p/e of over 25 , exception is company where chances of earning growth is huge) . Now when index was at 21000 everyone was over positive about market , if a share price should be at 100 peoples paid 150-200 for it , now market is at 15000 and peoples are over negative now , that if if a share price should be at rs 100 its quoting at 60-70 now . I understand this positive /negative environment is created on basis of circumstances like (growth /govt stability/companies growth /wars/recession or whatever). But i do believe stock market always overreact on both sides negative or positive . So i believe recent fall is just an overreaction on negative side just like recent surge in stock market was overreaction on positive side . Companies are operating in the way they were operating (most are) . So if they are not worried about prices of stocks then why you are . Retail companies did not close down its offices , banks did not close down, Everything is same , however earning may be affected a little but it does not mean stock market is dead ..

So keep following this in mind while investing in future .
1. Never buy/sell in panic
2. Do invest only surplus amount (amount which is excess)
3.Invest in all assets (like stock ,property ,gold , fixed deposits)
4. Don't get attracted by short term gains
5. Always invest for long term don't trade or try to make short term gains
6.Invest on regular basis ,don't invest whole amount on same time
So follow these basic investment rules in future investment ....

Well to be precise here is Wat i am going to do now .
I believe market is over sold at some extent . So i will start picking stocks on monthly basis that is i will invest certain amount every month to pick cheap stocks without worrying about previous holdings (which are in my demat) . In simple terms if you can save rs. 10k per month for investment , do invest rs. 3 k in stocks , 3-4k in FDR's , get some gold or hold some cash whatever ...
don't invest whole amount in stocks and invest only surplus amount with long term view only

Warning , This is my personal views about stock market , i am not a financial consultant or hold no right to advice ... These are my personals views so use this article at your own risk

2007-06-18T11:17:00.001-07:00

Hate ?Why
I was sitting with my friend today and he started discussing about hate .I said ya i hate few peoples in my life (infact very few 1 or two) and i hate them because they hurt my feelings . They hit on my weakest part .I just cant forgive them but pity is i cant do anything about them . I am aware that hate is two way sword , it hurts more to the person who hate .But question is do i have really that big heart that i can forgive someone who really hurt me at my weakest part . Then i asked what are your views about hate . He said he has thinking like me ,but recently he met a person who told him a story . There was a person who was praying god for years and years . That person was very calm and nice nature . He never hated anyone in his life . He was leading very normal and simple life . Lot of peoples had said bad words about him , but he never cared about it and keep praying god . One day a lady came to him and said bad words about his family or said something that really offended him (that is she has hit her weakest part). That nice person lost control and he was about to say that i will pray god to punish you . But suddenly God came to that person and stopped him . God said he should not ask bad for anyone even for that lady who has offended him . He asked god why , she is saying something that really hurt him , and wat she said is completely wrong and defame him . God said there are lot of good as well as bad things exists on this earth .And its me (God) who has created both good as well as bad things .So you have no right to say anything about those bad things . Those bad things are just your sins .You must have done something wrong in your life thats why these bad things bother you . But its upto you weather you cry for punishments you deserve for your sings or accept those punishments gladly as wish of god . Because God always does justice .So Stop hating someone or anyone in your life .

This story was quite short but it has real meaning .I am writing it may be i am not that great that i can sop hating someone whom i just dont like at all .But if you have a Big heart you should stop hating .The happiness you will get by stop hating someone will be forever .

2007-05-02T10:02:00.000-07:00

How poor indian Rich peoples are
Last night i was out with friends for hangout . We were roaming in city's best area . We den stopped car near a juicebar and ordered juice . We were waiting for juice in the meanwhile a kid came near to us on old bad looking bicycle . he was not well dressed to .He stopped his cycle near us and ask us to purchase Agarbatti.We just said wat we will do with agarbatti . He
replied he has to pay his school fee so please buy it .ok it was around rs. 10 (25 cents) and upon asking how much he will make he replied he will make rs. 2(5 cents) profit on it .ok wat a big deal we said we will buy np . den we just started kidding with him . One of my friend asked him , hey dude you should be making lot of money na . its a posh area who will deny to buyagarbatti .everyone will buy it and you should make a lot from it .he (kid) started looking at my friend's face with little wonder . We just asked what happened . He replied i tell everyone that i need to pay my school fee so please buy agarbatti from me but peoples rearly buy it .
and upon asking how much money he makes per month . He said he work 3-4 hours per day and hardly makes rs. 100-200 per month . he just makes money to pay his school fee, after working so hard (yes its right he makes rs. 200 per month or rs. 6 per day (15 cents)).We were little wondering (infact wondering a lot),but we did not believe that kid , thought he might be lying . We offered him glass of juice ,and then thought he might be selling stuff to poor peoples . We asked him to go to everyone with car and tell them you need to pay school fee and they will most probably buy it from you ..Ok a car stopped near juice bar . We were watching at it , the
kid gone near the car and told the family sitting in car . he need to pay school fee can they please buy agarbatti from him in just rs. 10(25 cents) . Just guess wat the family inside the car told that kid ... They just told the kid go away stupid ask your father to pay your school fee..Then another car stopped , he repeated process , and he also did not buy we were watching all this , he requested atleast 10 peoples with big cars to purchase from him . But all of them denied ...(yes
peoples who own cars who were drinking juice of rs. 50 and probably all of them were millionnaires did not have money to buy
agarbatti worth rs. 10).Thats the 100% true incident happened in amritsar .now i would like to ask a question ?

1.Does the so called rich persons have gurantee that they will stay rich forever ? wat if they lost there money and there kids haveto work like this ?Are not we humans ?Is not our moral duty to help someone who need it (specially little kids)

2.I would like to ask from school , cant they pardon fee(not charge them ) of poor kids . ? will it really affect them if they discount fee of 5-10% percent kids who are really financially week

3.I would like to ask the govt . why cant govt. schools have that scale of education as private schools have ? A govt teacher earns like rs. 10000 per month and private teacher earns rs. 1000 . But scale of education in govt schools is still much more worse than
private school (however they want high school fee). Damm we have govt hospitals but doctors of hospitals prefer to work in private clinics we have govt schools but teachers prefer to teach in private tutions drawing salary and causing burden on govt funds ????Cant govt manage this country in a better way .Cant govt ensure that everyone do his/her duty .
ok i am confident about career of that kid. Anyone who works so hard just to keep his education continued will defenately be
very successful in future . He will be star of future .and he will do much better in education and life than kids of those so called rich peoples who spend thousands of ruppes just on tutions .So these peoples who said " no " to purchase his agarbatti should just think once again that if they did right by saying "no" ?

2007-04-14T00:21:00.000-07:00

What is Love
i am in love ?you would hear lot of your friends telling you that they are in love ..Some of your friends might say they are sad because they are not getting attention from someone they love ...Now i would like to ask do these peoples know wat is love ?In this post i would like to explain wat is love , why it happens and wat should you do if someone you love cheats you ..
Biological defenition :Biologically a love is devided into three parts
1.lust
2.Romantic attraction
3Attachment
Lust is something you can say physical feelings thats why love normally happens in opposite sex(male/females).Attraction is a romantic desire which gives a satisfactory feeling and happiness.Both Lust and attraction are short term feelings (stays for few weeks and then started loosing importance).Attachment is only bondage which promote relationship for years or decades .if you see scientifically these all relationship produces some kind of chemicals in our brain resulting such type of imotions
Psycology of love:
Psycologicaly love constitutes following three factors.
1.Intimacy
2.Committment
3.Passion
Intimacy: is the fact using which two peoples can share personal lives details which they cant share with everyone .
Committment: It is the expectation that relationship will last forever(a never ending relationship)
Passion: It is the part of love which involve romance .
Why We got attracted to each other ?Everyone knows that no one is complete human being .Everyone have shortcomings.So we try to complete ourselves by loving with someone For example if you do fear to take bold decisions its most probable chances that you will fall with someone who is very bold in nature .You always get attracted by qualities that you donot have .However similarity of thoughts play important role too .
Religious views of love
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails."
According to Gita(Hindu's religious book)
It says, "Sattva—pure, luminous, and free from sorrow—binds us to happiness and wisdom"
now upto now we have discussed important factors constituting love or you can say i have subdevided love into 6 parts as follows:
lust,romanticattraction,attachment,intimacy,committment,passion as discussed earlier
In a short word Love is just an imotion (an imotion like fear,depression,happiness)...
There are two types of loves ..
1.Love
2.Sacred Love
1.Love is the thing we discussed previously which involves fulfilment of about 6 conditions to some extent
2.Sacred Love :Sacred love is the fulfilment of above 5 conditions(except lust) with no expectations ..Love makes you sad ,because you want your partner(someone you love) to return you same amount of passion,committment,intimacy etc etc ...
Sacred love is just a love where you expect nothing from your partner ..so if you are being sad in love you should reconsider .
To whom love can happen ?A love can happen between any number of peoples ...A man and nature ,A man and animal ,Children and parents ,two friends or between group of friends ..now remember in such type of loves almost 5 conditions met except lust..A lust occurs between two opposite sexes (male/females or gays/lesbians)..And according to me if lust play an important role in your love trust me this love cannot be Sacred love ..
Can Human love be Complete?Answer is simply no..A human love with other human cannot be complete love ..A complete love would be a love where where 100% of lust ,Romantic attraction ,Attachment ,Intimacy ,Committment ,Passion is given and received.Which is not possible in case of human beings for example if you give 100% committment to your love partner you would have no committment left for your other friends or family ?is it possible .. i dont think so ..So human love cannot be perfect love
Can sacred love (does not involve lust part)be perfect ?
Yes A sacred love can be perfect. But this love can happen between God and man ..Because its the only god whom we can love and expect nothing from him (because we know god will not cheat us).Human beings are made to cheat so you cannot have sacred love with human being (if you are considering your love sacred with other human , trust me you are cheating yourself)
Why love makes us Sad?
No doubt love makes you happy ,but amount of happiness cannot be collectively more than you get from your family/friends etc .But sorrow's of love is much more than you can get from any other thing ...Reason is simple We expect more than we give its human nature .for example lets say if we have 100% attraction within us ...We may give 20% to family 10% to friends 5% to fun and stuff 5% to naturally beautiful places and rest 60% to someone we love ..now if give 60% of our attraction to someone we love We expect him/her to give us 70% of attraction to us ..same is true about other factors too like committment /romance etc.So we are sad because we expect more than wat we give .So in any relationship amount of expressions given(romance/attraction...etc ) cannot be equal to amount of expression receieved .Either its high or low .So in any relationship person who gives more expressions and get less expressions in return becomes sad .
For example if we keep 2 peoples who claim they love each other very much in a closed door with no socialize and fun stuff for them .One day they will be bored from each other .So Desires are important to us until they donot get fulfilled but when they get fulfilled they start loosing importance .Similar is with love ,Love is important until you donot get someone you love and its universal truth .
Got cheated in love ? think again
You are sad because you expected 100% committment ,attraction,attachment,intimacy ,passion from someone you loved .But as i have previously discussed it is not possible for human being to give you so much attention and imotions So you can either be sad for it ...but give me answer ?wat about expectations that other peoples have from you ?Wat about committment you done to your family and friends ?Dont you have any attraction left for your family/Friends ?Does not your Family/Friends expect anything from you ?if these things does not matter to you . then sure cry everyday .But if you have any love left for your family/friends then sure you have no right to be sad for someone (specially for single person,because he/she does not deserve 100% of your expressions /love )

2007-04-12T10:35:00.000-07:00

conversation with God
God : Hello. Did you call me?

Me: Called you? No.. who is this?

God : This is GOD. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.

Me: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something.

God : What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.

Me: Don't know. But I cant find free time. Life has become hectic. It's rush hour all the time.

God : Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.

Me: I understand. But I still can't figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.

God : Well I wanted to resolve your! fight for time, by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?

God : Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Me: why are we then constantly unhappy?

God : Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday.You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.

Me: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?

God : Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty. .

God : Pain is inevitable able, but suffering is optional.

Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?

God : Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer. With that experience their life become better not bitter.

Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?

God : Yes. In every terms, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Me: But still, why should we go through such tests? Why cant we be free from problems?

God : Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you! are free from problems.

Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading..

God : If you look outside you will not know where you are heading.Look inside. Looking outside, you dream. Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.

Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?

God : Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you. Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

God : Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Me: What surprises you about people?

God : when they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me" Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the side of the truth.

Me: Sometimes I ask, who am I, why am I here. I cant get the answer.

God : Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

Me: How can I get the best out of life?

God : Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Me: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.

God : There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.

Me: Thank you for this wonderful chat.

God : Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that took our breath away!

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one of my friend sent me this chat transcript in an e-mail ..Is not it wonderful na ?Atleast it look good to me .Feel Free to share it with your friends ..Maybe it can give them mental peace wat they are seeking from years .

2007-04-04T05:04:00.000-07:00

Way to Success

There are basically three types of person in this earth :

Those who work and get success in life and achieve wat they want
Those who are careless and enjoy it lot
Those who work very hard but donot get success at all

Ofcourse we are not going to discuss catagory two peoples । Because if you fall in this catagory you are lucky one so keep enjoying life ॥ but not everyone can taste carefree life।Catagory one peoples already know way to success So its no need to discuss them at all. So basically we are going to discuss catagory three peoples.. Peoples who work very hard but still donot get success.And most of the peoples fall in this catagory .

Basically God has given us most of the things in life but donot give us all the things that we need .God is very intelligent and know if he has given us all the things we need in life our life will be boaring and meaningless .So success is just to get those things that god did not give us but we want those things badly .For different peoples success may have different meanings .For student success meaning might be getting #1 rank in school/college/univ. For businessman success might be expanding Business .For poor peoples success mightbe earning lot of money .For someone finding true love might be success for others Name and fame may be success .

For every Success there is always sacrifice .So if you want success be willing to sacrifice watever your success demand .There are always two ways to get success , one is easy way normally involves cheating other is difficult but right way .Easy success by cheating is easy to achieve but normally does not stay longer .So i will say go for right way always and be willing to sacrifice watever your success demands if you want to enjoy pleasure of success .

To get Success you must have following things :

Dream: You should have dream in your eyes to get success in life .Just imagine wat you are going to get after you will become successful and always keep yourself motivated .

Actions: You must be bold enough to take appropriate actions to get success in life .Be willing to do whatever your success demands .Remember Big successes always want big sacrifice .

Obstacles in way of Success:

UnStable mind: Remember everything is in mind .if you have a volatile mind you can never be successful .So always have Stable mind .Donot change or rollback your decisions on small problems ..Instead be willing to face all the challenges and give your 100% to the success.

Fear: Fear is the biggest obstacle in anyone's success. Fear of failing always keep us demotivated .So donot fear from problems and be willing to face them .

Worries: Worries is one of the major factor of someone's failure ..Most peoples become unsuccessful because they worry of failing .So instead of using there time in working for success they normally worry about not being successsful ...So more you will worry more you will be away from success .So you just do your duty with full faith on god and leave result on God "Karam kar faal kii Chinta mat Kar: Lord Krishna (Geeta)" ..So always use this philosophy of Geeta and work hard .. Because worry is the only thing that burns alive man from inside ..So just stay away from worries .

Lack of Motivation: Most peoples donot work because they lack of motivation.Remember everyone wants 100% success but are you giving your 100% honest efforts to get your success .So always keep yourself motivated to work .And donot let small failures/small problems to hold you back.

Negative Thinking: Remember success is not made for pestimistic peoples .If you think negative or negative attitude about life you will always see problems instead of solutions .So if you think negative you need to work on it ..Because negative thinking waste our energy while posotive thinking creates energy for us to work hard ..So always think posotive

Lack of Confidence: if you are not confident enough it will be hard for you to get success .Because confident peoples take quick actions and fight with any problems easily ..So you need to be confident to taste the real success

Lack of Faith in God: If you donot have faith on god or lack it these fears/tensions will always hold you back .So always do your duty honestly and let God decide if wat you want is in your life or not ...because sometimes wat we want badly is ultimately going to give us a pain .So let the god judge wat is right or wrong for you .

So if you want to enjoy true success .All you need to do is , Have a Dream , Dare to take actions .Control your imotions (fear/worries) and work with full faith in God And always have posotive attitude.Remember everything is in mind .

Case Study:

One day i was working like everyone .( i was noting myself my own behaviour)When some part of work was done successfully it motivated me and i gave better performance .After few hrs when i was trying 2 do same thing and it was not done it gave me negative thoughts and my performance was badly affected ...So i find out if i do work with posotive attitude i do better and if i work with negative attitude my performance fallen .But in the whole work i was anexious about my work and lil bit worried that if it will be done or not ....ok i stopped working did not work at all and thought about it for few days and decided i will work without any imotions ...

ok next day as i committed myself i will not let my imotions to affect my work .. I gone to work ..And just worked ..worked with my full body /mind and soul .i did not let any negative thought to demotivate me just thought i have to work its my job (and did not think how much performance i am going to give)....and guess wat my performance was multiplied by 5 .. Yep i finished 5 day work in a single day ..So thats the benefit to have stable mind learn to have stable mind to enjoy quick success .

Another case study :

Recently there was payment dispute with someone in our company .i was negative enough after approaching client number of times i said leave yaar we r not going to get payment .. lets get back to work with some disappointment ... but my friend who was very posotive in nature said there should be some reason of not getting paid .. its not nessecary that client is dishonest ... ok i said go for it you talk to client and see if he pays .....you know wat ... he talked to client 7 hours with very posotive attitude ..he satisfied the client and client paid all of the money galdly ... I have noted whenever i failed he stared work ... and only his posotive attitude helped him to do things which were near to impossible according to me ...So if you have great posotive attitude and thinking remember it will be difficult for everyone to hold you back from anything that you want ..

I spent 1 and half hour to write this article but this article includes my whole life experience .I will be glad if my words change even a single life ..Wish you a Great success .And feel free to add your advice and experiences by commenting on this post .

Thanks for Reading

Ankur

2007-03-25T01:55:00.000-07:00

Difference between laughter and happiness

You are laughing but it does not mean you are happy .According to me "Laughter is momentory while happiness is forever .So if you laugh most of the time in day , it does not mean you are happy , but if you donot laugh at all you might be the happiest person of the world . "The above quote might be appearing like wiered but thats what i think .

Everyone knows how to get laughter , Read jokes , go out with friends do some fun .Ofcourse its nessecary to live life but But very few peoples know how to get happiness .I have researched a lil bit on happiness and find out how peoples achieved happiness .

First of all you should understand why you need happiness ? According to me you need happiness to live most of the life and enjoy each and every moment of life no matter how much worse your conditions are .

Secondly you need to know wat is happiness , Happiness is just an imotion , A good feeling ,A feeling that keeps you satisfied most of the time .A feeling that saves you from sorrow ,A feeling that fuel your life .A feeling which gives us a hope to live in this world of non perfect peoples .

Now everyone wants to be happy ,So to achieve happiness you need to do one thing , simply feel satisfied what you are contented (given) by God .Actually human mind constantly generate desires .And if our desires get fulfilled it makes us happy and if that desire not fulfilled it makes us sad .So if our one desire get fulfilled a new desire born and we start working for that desire . So life is like a game ,get your desire fulfilled (whatever it can be , a car , a big house , a beautiful wife/husband or anything) and that makes us happy .The more we have worked for our desire the longer happiness stay .And if we work a lot to fulfil our desire but if it ends in nothing it makes us sad .,The hard we work for our desire (which is not fulfilled) it will make us more sad .So human life is all about filling desires .If one desire fulfilled /rejected another desire born and similary our life gets happy/sad moments accordingly .

So a normal person's life is filled with sorrow/happiness (depending on how much of his/her desires fulfilled and how strong desire was) .But there are some special persons who just stay happy no matter if their desire gets fulfilled or not . These are the peoples who have strong faith .(faith on anyone , but i think, faith means faith on god because you cant have faith on human being because no human can be perfect).So peoples with strong faith in God enjoy True happiness . A Happiness that never ends .The stronger your faith is on god , the more happiness you will enjoy in your life . These people's mind generate desires like any other peoples .But they have more stable minds .They do work to fulfil desire with faith in god . They leave result on God .They just do their work and donot worry about result in their life .So if their desire gets fulfilled it makes them happy more than anyone else as they enjoy it as wish of God and donot worry about loosing wat they got .But if their desire donot get fulfilled ,it does not make them sad .They accept it as wish of God .They accept every bad thing happen to their life as wish of God . And such bad things does not make them sad .According to them our life is Prewritten and we cant do anything about it .We just need to have faith in God and do our deeds .We are born to do something good in our life .We are born to change other people's life .We need to understand true meaning of life and start working .

These are my tiny thoughts , Your comments are welcome

2007-01-16T10:33:00.000-08:00

True Love

These days when relationships look like joke ...i wondered if love really exists ...?most peoples are interested in short term relationships and fun . most of the resturants is filled with guys/girls dating each other . In this world where loosing virginity and extramarital relationships looks more common and marriges are becoming meaningless i was questing myself that does love exists in this world ... ? Even though i never had any past relationship or not even dated a girl in my life .. i felt i need to do that because i have achieved my carrier goals ..so my friends suggested me to get a girl friend from anywhere and start enjoying ......but i felt today these things are just not for me .i am kinda sensitive person , and any short term relationship would probably hurt me more than giving me fun ... I found that i need someone to love ... (i will get one if i will be lucky but if not sure arrange marrige is an option too)...... ofcourse i can tell you countless cases of short term relationships where girl boys meet , date have fun and then marry to someone else ....but these days i found cases of true love that i think i should discuss here , so that peoples who donot believe in love or lost faith from relationships may need to reconsider it ...

Yesterday i was at my friend's house , i heard a voice of crying from upstairs .....We just moved up and seen ... a guy ( he was known to me but was a good friend of my friend) lying on the ground and crying loudly....We were all amazed what happened to him ...We got to talk to him .. and asked for reason of crying ... he first did not tell us in hesitation but later on we found that someone was following his girl friend ( proposing /teasing his girl friend) .. He was very upset from it .. Ok he was not from our city but was a guy of small town ....First of all i amazed whats the reason to cry .. if someone else has proposed your girl friend .. Ask your girl friend to deny thats simple ...but crying like this ? whats the point .? ok after some time that guy left .. Then i talked about that guy to my friend and asked what was the matter ... He told me that dude (the one who was crying) is in true love .... I said comeon , true love and in 2007 ...just forget it ..may be he is crazy ...But then he told me actually the girl he loves is from different cast due to which this guy did not marry her yet....but still i said it cant be love ...He told me that guy did not even look at other girl from last 6 yrs .He ofcourse did not even meet to his girl friend from last six years and they just talk on phone to each other once a week (without telling their parents) ... He told me his love is beyond our thinking ...He is spending all of his life just thinking about her ...I also found that guy is working 18 hrs a day to convince parents of girl to agree for marrige ....Well i have to agree with my friend .. because i saw a true true love in that guy eyes ... He just left everything .. every pleasure of life with a single hope of marrying to his girl friend .... It was first moment of my life when i felt yep love do exists in this crazy world .....

Also today i see a documentry .(A true story) , Which explains love exists ... It was a story of a man Named as Jame ,His wife Juiliana and new born baby Carter ...The couples decided to move from one american state to another .... . So they were going by car but accidently lost the way and reached to hills full of snow ... it was a land with no men ( america is very big and places like alaska where snow exists its hard to find other peoples .. thousands of kilometer land exists with no population at all).So they lost in vain .. After reaching at unknown place their car's fuel vanished and there was no food for them ... the temprature was very very low .It was near to impossible for them to survive in such a vain without help of anyone ...But after waiting for few days in car when they did not get any help , they decided to find a way themselves by walking ...But it was very cold their .. And it was not safe to bring new born baby(or very young baby may be of few days or month older) with them..But they just cant leave kid alone in the car . So they just put the kid in the bag closed it from upperside (with little space to let oxygen enter). They were tired and hungry like hell .., The only way to survive was hold the ice in mouth for few minutes and wait it to turn into water ...So they just walked to find a highway to get help .. After walking lot of kilometer's .. walking continuously whole day and nigh both of them were fealing tired ..and they both were just too much worried about the baby ...,...So they were just going to die if continuously walk like this.. So Jame ask juiliana to stay in a cave they found until he find a way or some sort of help ... ofcourse juiliana loved jame .. but she was worried about baby too .. So she decided to stay in cave ...Noone of them have eaten anything from number of days ...So juiliana was unfortunately not able to walk anymore so that was the reason to stay in cave too ....So Jame loves his wife and new born baby , so he decided to take risk and go and keep walking until he donot find any help .....Jame walked 6-7 days continuously .. He was about to die ... but only thing that keep him surviving was the love .. He was just imagining one thing ... no matter if i die .. i will be very happy god if you save my kid and wife ..The only thing that kept him alive in vain ,and in lot cold wave , the only one desire to save his wife and kid ....... On the other hand juiliana was getting more and more week ... However she was continuously breastfeeding the kid even if she was very weak and did not eat anything from lot of weeks .but she still continously tried to breastfeed her kid to keep him alive ...She even made a wound in her own body and drink blood so that her body can make enough milk to keep her baby alive .....

So it was just love ...

Jame loved his wife and kid ...So did not care his own life to find help for his kid and wife ...

Juiliana did not care her life ... and cared her baby 's life ,,,.. she just survied cause she had trust on Jame ...

Luckily Jame found a town and managed to get help from other peoples .. They also found juiliana later on with help of helicopter ....However both Jame and Juiliana had to undergo surgery where they both had to loose their foot finger's because of walking on the ice for number of weeks ....However kid Survived ....At finally when media contacted them and asked about incidence and their feelings ...They said We both have lost our finger's (of foot) but Still we are very happy because ..We managed to save our new born kid ......

So just imagine .....how jamie was willing to loose his life for juiliana and Carter . and how juiliana supported decision of jamie and also willing to loose her life for Carter ...

So that is love ...When you care someone more than you and your life ...When you ate willing to loose life /money/or anything for happiness of your loved once .........Well the person like me who always thought that love is useless thing in this world , now believes that it is the most beautiful thing of thing world ... It is the only thing that can give you power to fight any situation in this world .......

Well i will wait for my angel , i will wait for someone who can love me ...

and if you are reading it , i pray a life full of love for you ...

Thanks

2007-01-03T04:53:00.000-08:00

back from haridwar now ..
me and my friend gone to trip of haridwar for 2 and half days ... here is what we did ...
it was just a sudden trip , he just told me we need to go to somewhere else . that is on some trip .. i said why not and next day we left for haridwar .. we bought tickets in tatkaal (quick tickets) costed us about Rs. 750($15) for appx. 400km trip ..when i entered in train felt some odd . there was nothing visible outside the train .. it was covered like plane ... but due to hit , we got great relief from cold wave ... ... So the train travel was quite easy while going and it left us at destination with in appx. 8 hrs ... After we reach there i saw lot of peoples were there . the station was full of peoples . ... I just got booked a hotel ... We just went to hotel and asked for a room . he said it will cost us Rs. 500 ($12) per day ... We were about to pay the same but another customer came and said i am not going to pay 500 , so the hotel owner asked him to pay 400 ... on it my friend asked hotel manager , why we need to pay 500 if he is paying 400 ... he said you then pay 400 ... so first thing you need to learn is bargain ... you may save 25% of your trip expenses by bargaining ... after i reach to the market . i saw haridwar was full of shops ... its just like 3-4 markets full of peoples ..... There were everything fine except good food ... if we go there and ask for samosa they said they dont have chatni for it .... milk was just like water .. or milk powder ... the quality of food was not good at all ... infact food was quite expensive too .. for example if you demand cold coffee you get just cold coffee with no icecream .. also you need to pay $1 or $2 for bread with butter ..... .. however we ate a lot ... then we gone to ganga ghat ... at that day . looked at Ganga .. it was quite kool . just spend few hours on it.. there were lot of peoples gathered but most were with families or couples ... so aint got any new friend there ..... then came back to hotel ... then we gone to cyber cafe ... as girl was sitting near my (neibouring pc ) ... i just talked to her .,.. but she was not friendly at all ... i mean probably local girls were not even willing to talk to visitors .... so all we did it got bored . thats it ... ... we then came back to hotel .. watch tv and sleep ....next day we gone to ganga ghat for bath ( as its a faith that if you bath in ganga your become free from sins ) thats the reason most peoples go there ... it was very cold there ...and we have to remove our shoes ,.... when i put my feet near ganga ghat i felt i am standing on ice ... i was shivering .. but i know i have to take bath ,... so instead of thinking anything i just jumped in it ... and you know what my feet got slipped ... i was about to fell but my friend hold my hand ... so nothing happened ... i just put my head inside ganga with whole body and came back outside with shivering and changed clothes ....then someone , pandit etc asked us for pooja (pray) ... we just did that ... he then asked us to pay rs. 1000 ($25) ... my friend told me its their job dont pay them so much .... its better to donate to poors instead of paying them ... ok we just paid lil like $2 or $3 and came back and paid some to poors sitting outside .... then we planned trip to rishikesh ...we got tampoo and sit there and reached rishikesh in 15-20 minutes .... when i landed there i saw there is nothing i was bit amazed why peoples aked to visit rishikesh ... i asked auto guy whats the place to see .. he told me its just few temples ... but we need to visit to lakshman julla ... So we reached their with another auto and it took 5-7 minutes more ... once we reached their i saw it .. it was just simply a beautiful place ...lot of couples and families were their ... and it was appearing that its like more of tourist place instead of religious place ... actually there was a green lake and you just have to cross lakshaman julla to reach there ... its just a bridge which shakes when you move over it .. it was horrible when you see below from it .. but the excitement of reaching the place was so much that i was away from fear ... ... we then took motor boat ride their ... it was exciting too ... but i am lil worried about peoples there .. i mean there was little risk ... for example ... its just too much down there ...if someone fell from mountains with slipping of feet ... he /she will probably loose her life ... also lake was quite drawn too ... and also i saw a bull on the bridge .. it was short bridge with thousands of peoples and few monkies and bull .. i mean these all things might be risky .. but it was appearing noone cares about it .... however noone of the indian girl was alone ... most were with families and couples however we met few single girls from us/uk/white ... we just talked to few white peoples in haridwar and rishikesh .. but we were short of time ... so we just said bye to them and left back to home ... we got night train tickets ... but it was horrible experience while comming ... weather was full of fog and there was extreme cold .... overall train was quite late ... also the window's of train were not completely able to close .... so we got very (infact everyone got shivered in train) ....so finally we reached at home .... i have shot some pics of haridwar while coming ..... i will try to post them here if my blue tooth connection worked fine ...
good luck everyone

2006-11-12T11:17:00.000-08:00

Google's medical diagnoses , i have just read about this tool , they say doctors in uk have found it very useful . let me try to explain how probably it is working , its just like a search engine where database of thousands to lakhs of sympthoms /dieseases are maintained . So doctors are human and they just cannot remember all the sympthoms . So using this tool doctor may ask sympthoms from patients and then search those sympthoms on google medical diagnoses tool , so google will tell what are the possible dieseases patient may have . In uk doctors have found this tool very useful . They say in 58% of cases they were able to diagnosis dieases . So what are you waiting for indian doctors ??? go get your google diagnoses tool . bye bye

2006-10-21T00:00:00.000-07:00

Safety tips on Diwali

Diwali is great festival , no doubt everyone should enjoy it . but there are few unlucky person who loose a lot on diwali due to fireworks . Please take the following measures to avoid any bad thing on this diwali .
Safety tips for diwali :

Donot leave kids alone , if you have purchased fireworks for kids please stay with them all the time and ensure their safety . Also avoid to purchase big fireworks for them . Use low volume small fireworks to lower the risk .
Park your vehicle inside the closed doors . (inside house or garage) . Vehicles parked in open may get fire if any fireworks fall on them . So for atleast tonight donot park your vehicle outside from home . Also donot have any substance outside home which is easily immflamable
Avoid going outside at late night . Sometimes its seen that fireworks pollution is Dangerous for health (specially for peoples suffering with Asthama or other allergy related dieseases) . So avoid going outside at late night

Finally We wish you a Very Very happy diwali.If you know any other thing that one should take care to celebrate diwali , then please post it as comment . Also Please send this blog to your Friends , so that they can enjoy Diwali , Safely and happily

2006-10-19T00:17:00.001-07:00

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2006-10-19T00:17:00.000-07:00

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2006-10-11T23:23:00.000-07:00

Electric Shock

Well i just got electric shock , when i touched my pc few minutes ago ... It was mild shock and i am quite fine . Well when i purchased computer year and half ago , the shopkeeper also gave me iron stand where i have my computer adjusted . Normally it does not give any shock , but today i got the shock , reason is probably i did not wear anything on my feet (no shoes) and my hands were little wet with sweat (after typing a lot) ...
After that i just dried my hands and wear plastic shoes and tocuhed computer again and then it did not give me electric shock at all .
So peoples , if you have desktop at home and you have placed it somewhere else (except wooden box ) then take care following things .
1. donot touch computer with wet hands when its on .. Cause water is one of the best conductor of elecricity .
2. Also wear plastic shoes or anything made from plastic while working with computer ...
Hope you will never get electric shock from computer in your life , Good luck .

2006-10-10T05:55:00.001-07:00

Tips to Stay healthy
Ofcourse i understand luck plays an important role in our health .. Some peoples have good health as god gift while other peoples have to depend on medicines on large extent ... But here are few tips that may surely help you to stay healthy .
1. Always Wash hands before eating anything , Most of us donot wash hands before eating food ,Due to which germs go to out body and we may get sick ,or may cause common cold,sickness or other kind of diseases
2.Excersice , Well try to excersice , but if you cant or donot want to the atleast walk 5-7km daily , Because walking help us to digest food . And as old peoples say "All diseases start from stomac " , i too believe it . Peoples with better digestion have better capability to fight diseases . So its very important to walk .
3.Stay Clean , Always try to dispose waste in such a way that it does not cause any smell or donot let germs/mosquitoes , which leads to various diseases .
4.Hygiene is very important while cooking food ,donot eat food from anywhere where you doubt that they are not maintaing proper hygiene . Always eat good quality Food .
5.Go to doctor immidiately if you feel some sort of pain in any part of body , donot ignore any sympthoms or any unusual thing you are feeling .
6.Health insurance is very important thease days and everyone should have it .

2006-10-10T05:55:00.000-07:00

2006-09-30T02:02:00.000-07:00

Mercy Killing and Suicides

This week most of the newspapers were full on Discussions of mercy killing and Suicides .These topics are really sensitive and worth Discussion . So i am going to post my views on this topic . i cant say if they are right or wrong but yes thats what i think ...

Actually everyone have difficult time in his /her life .Specially when someone you love or care have difficult time or near death .For those who donot know what is mercy killing here is simple definition . killing someone suffering with critical diease (where chances of recovery is near to zero) with lethal injection or with some painless way to end his/her suffering . Remember mercy killing (euthanasia) is illegal .There are very few countries in this world who have legalised euthanasia. From history peoples demanded mercy killing(specially those peoples who cannot see their relatives dying or suffering from painful diease. However almost all such applications were being rejected by courts . My thoughts are against mercy killing too . I understand that it is really painful to see someone crying and begging for death but still it cannot be legalised . Here are the main two reasons which i think mercy killing cannot be legalised .

If law allowed mercy killing there may be misuse of this law . Some peoples may kill their relatives( chances may be rare but still there are chances) for money or some other reason and show it as mercy killing . So mercy killing cannot be legalised .
Miracles will stop happening , Sometimes patients where doctors said they will not live longer may recover in future . I personally know few peoples where doctors said they should die in a month or two lived number of years ... So there are always chances of patient to recover with his/her strong will ( if not recovered atleast live long with diease they have).

As far as pain in concerened . Noone know what is death and what could be extent of pain to human body however i have read in a religion book that " God cannot give us pain more than we can bare(afford to have) . When extent of pain is more than we can accept we automatically die . So i think mercy killing should not be allowed

Suicide:

It is the another Serious problem in this world . you will be surprised to know there are millions of peoples suicide every year world wide ... Peoples suicide when their is nothing much left in life ...Depression is one of the major cause of suicide ...Some of the common reasons for suicide is , family problems ,Relationship problems , financial problems and diseases . Well its shame for world that , it have huge number of billionnaires still lot of peoples suicide for financial problems .Most of the suicided can be avoided if govt. and social organisations work hard to prevent it ... Govt should try to do justice with everyone . Their should be helpline for it . Their should be govt agency that work with peoples who are depressed or have serious problems .Also society should come up to help such peoples ....

I think we all should have been more responsible if we have to fight with such painful issues .

2006-09-29T00:16:00.000-07:00

I think i have to make one post on my best friend too .. His name is Raman . He is very understanding and handsome guy . We did our Schooling as well as grad together . It was great fun with him ... We were topper in school in primary section . We were proud of our school . infact we are proud of our city . We have good channel of Friends .We met in class nursery . however our friendship gone through at class 1st . I was little innocent in school as teased by lot of other students . he was little brave and always helped me in my panga's . however i have just quarlled once or twice and he helped me always ..

i always helped him in studies . so it was friendship of perfect combination . Whatever he has i lack and whatever i have he lacks . So it was perfect combination and thats why our friendship is there forever . you will be surprised we have not even quarrled even a single time in our last 20 yrs friendship .( and we meet almost daily) . one day i found him very fereared and crying at age of10 yrs appx. 4-5th class . When i asked him cause he said he found a ghost .. I did not believe it but he fell ill with fear of it . i donot know what and how it happened i donot believe in such ghosts etc but he is strong believer of natural powers .

Now it was time of board examinations , We worked hard always tense for it . We studied hard and finally succed but still did not secure top position in state . However it was good time during school as we were thought by cute girl teachers . However after it we gone to govt school ( school was upto middle) . We both did not have good experience with govt school . Lot of quarrels no proper education was common . it was like we were in jail however we found some true friends there too ..

Now it was time to college , we both opted college instead of school for +1. it was nice and great experience in college . Full freedom full masti ... however still habbit for worrying education was there and we did not enjoy much ... and then finally degree We did it too .. however we enjoyed degree very much .. We both did not concentrate much on studies and enjoyed very well . it was golden time we finally got rid for habit to study .. but after it We both did not opted job and started business in early age and we are quite successful in our business .....

however i found another friend who is stock broker . he is not very good friend too . but he is little philospher .. you know little pestimistic who believe in theory of life and keep thinking about sorrow death etc ... however he is little aashiq mizaz . he is about 8 yr older than me .. he had almost 10 unsuccessful relationships .. whenever he propose girl , girl denies her . i donot know why but he looks good however little short in height .

Another friend i found owns the cyber cafe .. He is really smart dude . He has great idea to make money . he chat with his own customers (girls who come in cafe for chat) and make money from it . it is a good time pass also girls who chat with him pay him like 20 rs. per day ... lucky dude

2006-09-26T06:10:00.000-07:00

Traffic a Big problem ..
Today i was coming back from my friend's office to home. and it took almost double than usual time to reach at home . simple reason was traffic . These days traffic is big problem for everyone . I was thinking about traffic problem . Major cause of traffic on roads were four and three wheelers . however two whealers does not cause much problem .. .... i will discuss some more about traffic in this article .
Types of Traffic : there are two types of traffic one traffic . one is traffic in Colonies other type of traffic is on main roads . Colonies traffic is not much and usually ends up in few minutes however traffic on highways may be huge .
Causes of Traffic: Major cause of traffic is increse in number of vehicles .. Worldwide peoples are having more and more money . so they use money to buy vehicles like cars and motorcycles .. however roads are limitied . so one of the major cause of traffic is increse in number of vehicles . Another reason for increase in traffic is cars /motorcycles are getting cheap day by day ..
Another reason for increase in traffic is lack of proper road management. roads with huge traffic should be connected with roads with less traffic .
Disadvantages of high traffic : Time : if there is too much traffic on roads it will always take more time to reach to destinantion . So its waste some time of everybody resuling in millions of hourse per day of any country . so countries with better traffic management will delelop more quickly than country with less traffic .
Pollution: Traffic is one of the major cause of pollution .Traffic cause two types of pollutions one is noice pollution other is air polution .. Noise pollution is something voice of horns etc . this types of polution affect peoples hearings also this pollution cause headace too . Air pollution caused by traffic is worst . Vehicles cause toxic gases which is harmful for everyone . they may cause Asthama ,nasal polyps ,allergy ,eye burn lot of harm to human body .
Accidents : one of the major cause of accidents is vehicles /traffic too . so if we are going to have more traffic in any country there is more probability of accients too .
Emergency Service impact: if we have more traffic on time it will take more time to reach fire vans to reach to burning places or it will take more time for ambulances to send patients to hospitals .
So there are huge disadvantages of traffic ..
What could be done to lower the traffic ?
Social responsibility: peoples should understand there social responsibility . they should prefer to use public transports like rail/buses rather travelling there own vahicles . Peoples should not hesitate to drive by cycles even very rich peoples in europe use cycles because cycling is good for health and cause no pollution . also if everyone will use cycles chances of accidents will be lowered . Anothe thing we can do is sharing vahicles . for example if you are your friend both have offices near or work in same office one day you can drive and drop her into office and vice versa .
Better management: Govt you do better road management . they should make new roads so that traffic can be lowered from existing roads . Also traffic laws should be implemented with more care .
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2006-09-24T04:46:00.000-07:00

Today is world's heart day .. I was reading a report on it where it was claiming that younger peoples are getting heart attacks .. It is because change in life style ...Peoples are taking more and more unwanted tensions .. So if you want to get rid of it avoid to take tensions ... One of the big cause of tensions these days are being lonely . peoples are living lonely and sometimes negative thoughts control there mind ... other reason is fear peoples fear from something but they dont know even if that thing may not harm them but fear will defenately harm them ....
Another reason for heart diseases is fast food . peoples eat junk food oils which block there heart nurves and may cause heart diseases.
another one reason is no excersice at all . peoples are having cars they dont walk much . due to which there body does not function properly and may cause digestion problem which cause blockage in heart ...

one another reason is High BP and HP . high bp is due to tension high HP is eating lot of non vegitarian food body building etc .. so you should avoid such things that may cause problem for you in future .

So on today's world heart day promise me you are going to avoid tensions less junk food and good exercise .

Good luck

2006-09-24T04:36:00.000-07:00

Difficult hours ....
i was feeling quite difficult from last 1 hour ... my legs were hurting a little feeling week .. then i feel some pressure on my face .. headace etc etc .... i was trying to figure out whats happening . a thought came in my mind that my Blood pressure gone up ... but when bp goes up one should not feel weak .another thought came into my mind was i need to go to doctor ... ok but i decided first i will wait for some time if sympthoms stay i will go to doctor ... so i left my pc and gone into long walk ... i feel better now . no pressure on my face and no chakkar(daziness ) . but now i am feeling fine . so who cares what it was now i am absolutely fine without any medicine it is mild headace that i have .. but expect it will be gone soon too ...

2006-09-23T14:00:00.000-07:00

what to do with this mouse .. i am not talking about computer mouse ... a real very big mouse comes to my room daily at 1 am when i use on computer. and then it plays all the time with my biscuits sometime try to eat sometimes go to kitchen and try to steal food etc .. its really .. This is a really stupid mouse ... and he is doing same from last 2 months comes at 1 am to my room try to steal food and then go back at morning ... my street dogs are very lazy they cant even catch a stupid mouse .... as far as cats are concerned a cat came to my father room when he was sleeping and then injured my father with its nails .. it was minor injury but animals can cause huge damage lets say they may nail your eye or anything ,... so i dont allow cats in room... This mouse have very good ... it knows i am not going to kill it cause i cant kill mouse ... who will cramate its dead body ? it will make my room ugly with mouse blood ... shhh i cant do it ... and if i use some poison these mouses die at some hidden part of house .. and they always cause lot of bad smell so not gonna use that too .... i think i need to buy new house ... cause this mouse will not leave me alone until i buy it .

2006-09-23T13:30:00.000-07:00

Navratre is back .... So i wish everyone happy navratre .. for those who donot know what it is (non indian peoples) here is summery ...it is a festival which continues sevral days .. most peoples spend this time to pray Goddess Durga . peoples dont eat meat or drink alcoholic products . So peoples go to temples at early morning and pray a lot .. Also some peoples who take Vrat donot eat proper food . they eat fruits etc that is selected food ,.. peoples believe that you cut your sins by doing all this ... thats great .. however some peoples celebrate it by dancing you can find lot about it from all media channels in india .... There are navratre comes twice a year .. The year ending navratre have ram novmi and dushera associated with it .. it is the day peoples celebrate . Ravan was killed this day who kidnapped Goddess Sita . peoples make a huge man called ravan with wood ,paper etc .. fit lot of fireworks on it and then burn it ... you can hear fireworks voice anywhere in city .. you should view google movies or pics to view how it looks like .After 20 days of dushehra you will find divali . peoples celebrate it as win of truth over evil ... peoples shop this day . it is one of the biggest hindu festival of india .. peoples love to shop .. they say its good luck to buy on diwali ...and peoples enjoy it very well .. peoples buy sweets for kids at morning and then kids burn fireworks and enjoy at night ... ....

2006-09-23T13:21:00.000-07:00

Peoples hate telecallers but i like them ....So one of my friend was getting calls from girl to buy some insurance related unit linked plan with six years locking period . and you know what she talked to him like 1 hrs that day and then another call again next day and he had almost 10 calls from her .. ok it was like chat ofcourse they did not discuss insurance policies for so much long time ......ok my friend have purchsed whatever she was selling and also gave my number and all of his friends numbers to buy ulip's ... i was very upset last days because of problems i discussed in last posts . and she called me and asked me to buy policies she is selling ... it was like 6 yrs locking period . i told her i bought same policy with other bank that have 6 yr locking period too ... so i donot want to stuck my whole money in such policies specially when stock prices were stock rockating .she told me sir pls donot do that and buy policiy . ok money was not a problem at all . but i was very upset . so i said no and cut the phone .. ok now then i felt some bad about it ... you know a gentleman should not say " no " to woman and do whatever she asks ... ok so i discussed all this stuff with my friend and we have decided that i will call her back after 2-3 months ( saving huge part of my monthly salary) and buy a double amount of policy from her (double than whatever she was expecting) . because i donot like to break anyone's heart ...

2006-09-23T13:15:00.000-07:00

my brother liked a girl .So he goes to date her without telling anyone ...one day girl father found that her daughter have bf ... ok now you know small cities its common peoples gets angry with such things .So they quarreled .. but finally seattled issue at there home .. my brother was pressurising my father to talk to the girl father for his marrige ... but my father was waiting for girl father response .. in the meanwhile my brother was sad .. he was feeling lonely and he was uncertain about his relationship.. however girl clearly told her father that she is going to marry to my brother only ...so her father met my brother today and they agree to marry her to my brother .. now everyone is very happy .. but it will take probably few months or year because girl have to complete her studies first ...lol he is my younger brother and going to get married before me .. now family peoples want me to marry to someone ..but i am not gonna do it i made them very clear that i will not marry for atleast next 3-4 years i have to enjoy my life also i need to get some phd degree with good automated business and i need time for it .. and my parents know i donot change my desicions . so my brother will probably marry soon and have kid lol and i will enjoy my life .... hehehe .. atleast tension of rejection or finding girl for him is over ....

2006-09-23T13:09:00.000-07:00

My maami (sister in law of my mom) has companint that she is getting lot of pain in her hear . so her family contacted doctor. There was no fault in the CT scan .. however she remain crying .. it scared everyone and create lot of tension for everyone .. So my mom dad was there at her home .she was not able to see from one eye(from a year or two) so doctors thought it might be diabities . but actually after getting tested they did not found any diabities .. So then one doctor injected gulucos to her .. and her headace vanished .. so it was due to lower sugar contents in her body .. or watever . but it was diffcult time for all of us ... too many tensions this week .. hope she gets well soon too.

2006-09-23T12:54:00.000-07:00

My aunt was feeling week last week . So consulted the doctor . Doctor said he has low HB its like 5.8 . which is far less than normal HB (homeoglobin).Doctor said its not matter of worry all she needs is medicines for 5-6 months( probably vitamins/iron/calcium capsuils etc. etc ) . But recommned blood transmission for quick relief too . So my aunt decided to get blood . her group was b+ve . and mine was b+ve too . i was going to give blood if she ask but blood manager by our other relatives ( those who were body builders or very healthy gave it) . however my brother was scaring me about pain during injecting to get my blood . but i said i dont care ... however they were making my fun that i was saying that take my blood from outside but i was scary inside ... it was a lil true i have never donated blood in my life ..... however she is now in hospital ... one blood bottle is transmitted in her body . she is fine .. it was not any serious issue or case. but still creating some fear in my mind . she will be back home probably tommorow ..... and i am sure she will be very well .

2006-09-21T05:03:00.000-07:00

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