There are basically three types of person in this earth :
- Those who work and get success in life and achieve wat they want
- Those who are careless and enjoy it lot
- Those who work very hard but donot get success at all
Ofcourse we are not going to discuss catagory two peoples । Because if you fall in this catagory you are lucky one so keep enjoying life ॥ but not everyone can taste carefree life।Catagory one peoples already know way to success So its no need to discuss them at all. So basically we are going to discuss catagory three peoples.. Peoples who work very hard but still donot get success.And most of the peoples fall in this catagory .
Basically God has given us most of the things in life but donot give us all the things that we need .God is very intelligent and know if he has given us all the things we need in life our life will be boaring and meaningless .So success is just to get those things that god did not give us but we want those things badly .For different peoples success may have different meanings .For student success meaning might be getting #1 rank in school/college/univ. For businessman success might be expanding Business .For poor peoples success mightbe earning lot of money .For someone finding true love might be success for others Name and fame may be success .
For every Success there is always sacrifice .So if you want success be willing to sacrifice watever your success demand .There are always two ways to get success , one is easy way normally involves cheating other is difficult but right way .Easy success by cheating is easy to achieve but normally does not stay longer .So i will say go for right way always and be willing to sacrifice watever your success demands if you want to enjoy pleasure of success .
To get Success you must have following things :
Dream: You should have dream in your eyes to get success in life .Just imagine wat you are going to get after you will become successful and always keep yourself motivated .
Actions: You must be bold enough to take appropriate actions to get success in life .Be willing to do whatever your success demands .Remember Big successes always want big sacrifice .
Obstacles in way of Success:
UnStable mind: Remember everything is in mind .if you have a volatile mind you can never be successful .So always have Stable mind .Donot change or rollback your decisions on small problems ..Instead be willing to face all the challenges and give your 100% to the success.
Fear: Fear is the biggest obstacle in anyone's success. Fear of failing always keep us demotivated .So donot fear from problems and be willing to face them .
Worries: Worries is one of the major factor of someone's failure ..Most peoples become unsuccessful because they worry of failing .So instead of using there time in working for success they normally worry about not being successsful ...So more you will worry more you will be away from success .So you just do your duty with full faith on god and leave result on God "Karam kar faal kii Chinta mat Kar: Lord Krishna (Geeta)" ..So always use this philosophy of Geeta and work hard .. Because worry is the only thing that burns alive man from inside ..So just stay away from worries .
Lack of Motivation: Most peoples donot work because they lack of motivation.Remember everyone wants 100% success but are you giving your 100% honest efforts to get your success .So always keep yourself motivated to work .And donot let small failures/small problems to hold you back.
Negative Thinking: Remember success is not made for pestimistic peoples .If you think negative or negative attitude about life you will always see problems instead of solutions .So if you think negative you need to work on it ..Because negative thinking waste our energy while posotive thinking creates energy for us to work hard ..So always think posotive
Lack of Confidence: if you are not confident enough it will be hard for you to get success .Because confident peoples take quick actions and fight with any problems easily ..So you need to be confident to taste the real success
Lack of Faith in God: If you donot have faith on god or lack it these fears/tensions will always hold you back .So always do your duty honestly and let God decide if wat you want is in your life or not ...because sometimes wat we want badly is ultimately going to give us a pain .So let the god judge wat is right or wrong for you .
So if you want to enjoy true success .All you need to do is , Have a Dream , Dare to take actions .Control your imotions (fear/worries) and work with full faith in God And always have posotive attitude.Remember everything is in mind .
Case Study:
One day i was working like everyone .( i was noting myself my own behaviour)When some part of work was done successfully it motivated me and i gave better performance .After few hrs when i was trying 2 do same thing and it was not done it gave me negative thoughts and my performance was badly affected ...So i find out if i do work with posotive attitude i do better and if i work with negative attitude my performance fallen .But in the whole work i was anexious about my work and lil bit worried that if it will be done or not ....ok i stopped working did not work at all and thought about it for few days and decided i will work without any imotions ...
ok next day as i committed myself i will not let my imotions to affect my work .. I gone to work ..And just worked ..worked with my full body /mind and soul .i did not let any negative thought to demotivate me just thought i have to work its my job (and did not think how much performance i am going to give)....and guess wat my performance was multiplied by 5 .. Yep i finished 5 day work in a single day ..So thats the benefit to have stable mind learn to have stable mind to enjoy quick success .
Another case study :
Recently there was payment dispute with someone in our company .i was negative enough after approaching client number of times i said leave yaar we r not going to get payment .. lets get back to work with some disappointment ... but my friend who was very posotive in nature said there should be some reason of not getting paid .. its not nessecary that client is dishonest ... ok i said go for it you talk to client and see if he pays .....you know wat ... he talked to client 7 hours with very posotive attitude ..he satisfied the client and client paid all of the money galdly ... I have noted whenever i failed he stared work ... and only his posotive attitude helped him to do things which were near to impossible according to me ...So if you have great posotive attitude and thinking remember it will be difficult for everyone to hold you back from anything that you want ..
I spent 1 and half hour to write this article but this article includes my whole life experience .I will be glad if my words change even a single life ..Wish you a Great success .And feel free to add your advice and experiences by commenting on this post .
Thanks for Reading
Ankur
